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Mensaje de Wildflower: Justicia para George Floyd

Pasaron cuatro días sin arrestos mientras nuestra ciudad ardía. Sin arrestos, después del asesinato público de George Floyd a solo media milla de una de nuestras escuelas. Ha sido difícil encontrar palabras para describir nuestra angustia. ¿Cuántos hombres, mujeres y niños negros se encuentran en la cárcel, con mucha menos evidencia, en espera de que se haga justicia – por infracciones menores, solo por vivir – mientras los oficiales de la policía que mataron a George Floyd andan libres, en la comodidad de sus hogares?

Y mientras nuestra ciudad arde, ¿cuántos de nosotros estamos libres en la comodidad de nuestros hogares? Sintiéndose triste, sí, pero con la libertad de cambiar el canal,desplazando la pantalla hacia abajo para no ver los mensajes. La indignación selectiva no es suficiente. Debemos clamar hoy y todos los días hasta que haya justicia. Justicia para George Floyd y para cada hombre, mujer y niño negro que haya muerto a manos de la brutalidad policiaca avalado por el estado en nuestro país.

Cada uno de nosotros tiene la responsabilidad de actuar. Y sabemos que no hemos hecho lo suficiente. Pero la vergüenza de no haber hecho lo suficiente no debe impedirnos hacer todo lo que podamos ahora y seguir adelante. ¿Eres padre de un niño blanco? Hable con su hijo sobre las formas en que el racismo afecta a nuestro país. ¿Eres el padre de un niño negro o birracial? Las comunidades negras están de duelo, por nuestra pérdida colectiva y por el impacto que esto tiene en cada niño. La comunidad Wildflower está aquí para apoyarlos. ¿Eres maestra/o? Aprenda sobre su propia identidad racial, construya su propia conciencia de cómo esto impacta su práctica y enseñe a sus estudiantes a ser antirracistas . ¿Eres un líder organizacional? Haga espacio para sanación en medio de los constantes traumas que sufren nuestros hermanos y hermanas negros en este país. ¿Eres un empleado? Hable cuando vea actos sutiles y no tan sutiles de racismo.

Tome acción hoy, luego establezca un recordatorio recurrente para que vuelva a tomar acción mañana, la próxima semana, el próximo mes y el mes siguiente. Cuando suene ese recordatorio, pregúntese si está haciendo todo lo posible y luego haga más. Muchos no tienen la opción de optar a no participar o actuar, porque están directamente inmersos en la situación (son negros o sus familiares). Por favor no elijas no actuar aún teniendo la opción.

Los maestros y afiliados de Wildflower están tomando acción de varias maneras mientras nos afligimos. Únete a nosotros:

Si bien la red de escuelas Wildflower incluye muchas comunidades en los Estados Unidos, cuatro escuelas Wildflower, así como la organización que respalda nuestra red, tienen su sede en Minneapolis. La injusticia que angustia a nuestros colaboradores de Minneapolis es el menoscabo de la vida de los negros en Estados Unidos. Trabajamos y esperamos el día en que ninguna comunidad Wildflower –o cualquier comunidad– experimente tales injusticias.

The Three-year-old’s Dilemma: The Search for Order Amidst Chaos

Plastered across the virtual pages of social media are parents’ laments of three-year-old behavior gone awry. Parents and caregivers across the globe are fighting to maintain normalcy at home. What was once a daunting task of balancing a routine of school, work and play has now doubled in complexity. Families are charged with the task of working full time and providing child care full time. Families are striving to create a structure and routine amidst the backdrop of a drastically changed society. For the many who shelter in place, one time of day morphs into the other. Among the meetings, the newly organized pantries, the laundry and the dishes, stands the three-year-old. The child that every parent and caretaker is trying to protect, teach and love. The child who is challenging us. The child who is faced with a dilemma.


Children all over the world have been thrown into a uniquely stupefying situation. Children had schedules they could depend on. They had dates and events that gave them a sense of time. They knew going outside and being with people was safe and joyful. What was familiar is now foreign. What was cyclical is now halted. What was benign is now injurious. The ordered events of our days have unraveled. We attempt to remain grounded as the landscape of our daily lives shifts beneath our feet. But the three-year-old has a uniquely grand task at hand.


The mind of the three-year-old child is inherently sensitive to order. Staircases need to be repeatedly climbed, socks need to fit just right, and the same story often needs to be read six times (in a row). Dr. Maria Montessori’s work documents the child’s need for consistency, repetition, order and routine. Predictability gives a sense of security.


With social distancing, children have lost a sense of predictability, and in turn, they have lost some sense of security. Right now, they cannot go back to their routines. Schools and parks are closed. Playdates are paused. So much of what they knew to be true has temporarily shifted. Adults can understand that this situation is transient, albeit challenging. Asking a three-year-old to understand the complexity of this situation is an arduous request. This lack of choice and predictability not only disrupts their sense of order and routine, but also directly contradicts their sense of independence. One of the favorite phrases of the developing toddler is, «I do it myself». With the lack of independence and choice, myriad tantrums erupt. Simply put, it’s hard. And thus, we have the three-year-old’s dilemma: a search for order amidst a disordered time.


So what can we do? We hold space. We give freedom within limits. We set up home environments where the child can succeed and feel independent. Acknowledge big feelings in a factual way. Give choices when you can, while also holding limits. When your child screams because they don’t want the cereal you set out this morning (even though they eat that cereal every single day) remember it’s not about the cereal. In the classroom, children start suddenly reacting strongly to normal routines when something in their home life feels out of control. Now that home and school are melded together, it’s not surprising that children are testing limits- the world currently feels out of control. Children are trying to figure out what still has order and what does not. They might push back on a common routine like eating cereal for breakfast just to see where the limits are.


Involve your child so that they feel empowered. You can give back independence by offering two choices for your child to eat in the morning, or create a menu for the week with them. Let them choose between two outfits and when they get stuck, offer to help with one pant leg while they do the other. The child wants to know we are holding some boundaries and are there for support. Imagine driving on a highway. We want lanes on a highway – we want the freedom to change lanes, but need guidance as to where those lanes are. Children want the freedom of «choice» in their day, but the adults can help guide them by giving choices, routines and support. Create spaces in your home where children can access materials, toys and snacks independently. Pause to observe your child throughout the day. Observe again.


Remember, in this seemingly endless period of uncertainty, it’s not about the cereal. Rather, it is a call to recreate a sense of order for the child. The sense of order we all so deeply crave.

Join the Wildflower Medical Masks Project

Our rapidly changing new world is uncovering new challenges every day – as well as new opportunities to help and support one another in our neighborhoods and communities.


Over the last week, it has become clear that we’re experiencing a shortage of protective gear for medical professionals across the country. Most health care institutions and hospitals are rationing the use of N95 masks and in some cases, are prioritizing the use of an N95 mask only for the most ill patients and/or sterile procedures (i.e. surgeries). As hospitals run out of supplies, employees and residents at elder care facilities, group homes, shelters, and civic/nonprofit organizations that help vulnerable people are also left unprotected from the spread of COVID-19, as well as other illnesses. This reality hit home for me personally 4 days ago: one of my dearest friends is a nurse in a metro area Emergency Room and shared that she and her colleagues were using just one N95 mask per day and supplies are rapidly running out. Today, another nurse shared that she has been using the same mask for the last 3 days.


This reality is dire. Thankfully, we are not passive consumers – we are makers of our world! In the last week, the #MillionMaskMayday movement in which regular people, young and old, making homemade fabric masks* for health care and emergency workers at home has begun to sweep across the world.


My mom taught me how to sew. As long as I can remember, she has made things – when I was little, it was matching dresses for me and my sister; for the last 10 years, we’ve been making quilts together. I spend most of my time outside of Wildflower making soft beautiful things out of fabric for people I love to mark momentous moments in their lives – marriages, babies being born, new homes, birthdays. This moment we’re in now is also momentous, though for all of us at once. And when makers around the world heard the call to dedicate their sewing skills to support health care workers, I started to organize with other volunteer makers in my neighborhood in Northeast Minneapolis to share supplies and make as many homemade masks as we could. This opportunity to help out resonated also with Wildflower parents, children, and teachers across the country who have sewing machines at the ready – and so now, I’m inviting you all – Wildflower children, family members and friends – to join us in this volunteer effort.


If you have a sewing machine at home and know how to use it, you can make masks for emergency workers in need in your community. Fill out this form to request a kit. Or, use materials you already have at home – Instructions are available here. The pattern is perfect for beginners, and this would be a great project for children and parents to work on together. If sewing isn’t your thing but you’d like to help, we’re also accepting material donations and funding donations for this effort.

Request a Kit!

Thank you for your help and support. Stay safe and well!


* Although a homemade fabric mask cannot provide the same level of particle filtration as an N95 medical mask and are untested against COVID-19, the CDC has approved their use as a last resort. Research demonstrates that wearing a homemade fabric mask provides significantly more protection than wearing no mask at all.